Anyone in a long-term relationship knows that fighting is inevitable. Our goal should be fighting well, fighting clean–which is both shockingly hard to do and the basis of a successful partnership. In Why We Fight, relationship coach, couples’ therapist, and former Fortune 500 tech engineer Kim Polinder offers a unique and practical process for couples to address the recurring conflicts in their relationships–by helping them understand why they fight in the first place. If you’re sick of feeling out of control as the same old fights keep bubbling up, Why We Fight provides a path to understanding why we experience repetitive arguments and contention in our intimate relationships, and how to change that before it’s too late. With Kim’s guidance, you will discover your core wound, analyze how that plays out in your life, and follow a series of questions and practices to reframe and implement new behaviors, resulting in an improved relationship with yourself and your loved one.
