Social media star Tam Kaur’s ultimate guide to self-love, helping you find yourself through dating, breakups, bad relationships and so much more. I’ve been a hopeless romantic for as long as I can remember. I have always immersed myself in love stories – from films, tv series to books – longing for the day when I would grow up and be in a relationship. One day I would have my moment. You know, the moment at the airport, the moment in the rain, the moment with a boombox outside my bedroom window. Call me crazy, but I believed it would happen. And then I grew up… A boyfriend who was very much still in love with his ex? CHECK Dated a narcissist whose giant gestures of adoration came with control and manipulation? CHECK Getting together with the popular guy, who turned out to be emotionally unavailable? CHECK After a series of bad relationships, I knew things needed to change. I decided to focus on me and took myself on dates, bought myself flowers, and chose to spend my time doing the things I love. Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers is a practical self-love guide that will help you learn how to cultivate a deep and lasting love for the person who matters most: you. Tam x